To put it briefly, be convinced
Work a problem of negative installation of the child in communication by such in a way.
First of all check, whether you provoke negative installation that dispose or slight your child or look at it, emphasizing the rejection, a rasserzhennost, disagreement.
To put it briefly, be convinced that your installation is an installation friendly politeness.
If installation of the child forces you to feel fear, as it sometimes happens when it is aggressive and hostile, decide that follows to undertake if the bad is followed by the worst and you, for example, really will strike; having made this decision, try to relax with feeling of that you know now, will act how exactly, and therefore to you already any more not it is necessary to puzzle over all this.
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